Maria Finitzo’s documentary 'The Dilemma of Desire' uncovers the world of female pleasure and desire.
Producer-director Maria Finitzo’s feature documentary The Dilemma of Desire was robbed, like so many other works, by the coronavirus pandemic of its moment in the spotlight when its premiere at SXSW was cancelled in March. That fate seems extra cruel given that the movie is all about celebrating female sexual pleasure and especially the much-misunderstood clitoris in defiance of patriarchal efforts to silence, stifle and suppress female desire.
So it’s cheering to see this empowering, sex-positive work managing to find some kind of online life in these strange times. Sure, it would probably be even more fun to see the film with a paying audience, whooping it up and asking cheeky questions at post-screening Q&As. But maybe shy, embarrassment-prone viewers will feel more comfortable accessing this frank but essentially feel-good work from the comfort of their locked-down homes.
Well-versed in the ways of humanist, character-centric documentary filmmaking with a strong social-issues flavor (5 Girls, With No Direction Home, In the Game), Finitzo braids together the stories of several women here with deft assistance from editor Liz Kaar. First up on camera, showing how an early edition of the storied medical textbook of Gray’s Anatomy barely even uses the word “clitoris” outside the index, scientist Stacey Dutton deplores how little the medical world engages with this unique organ, the only body part that serves only one purpose: providing sexual pleasure.
Dutton endeavors to help her students understand the little-known physical structure of the clitoris, which only peeks a bit of itself outside the body and looks in total like an upturned four-petalled flower in silhouette. This discussion leads naturally into a conversation with New York City-based conceptual artist Sophia Wallace, who celebrates clitorises in many media, especially sculpture and printing, and whose slogan-skewed “Cliteracy Project” aims to educate and inform with catchy maxims, phrases, interdictions and words to the wise, such as “The hole is not the whole.”
Further out west, gender studies professor Lisa Diamond is seen leading a seminar at a university in Utah, where the class gingerly discusses childhood sexuality and queer identity, among other topics. In San Francisco, industrial designer Ti Chang speaks eloquently about the quest to rethink vibrator design as she fashions desirable, costume jewelry-like objects from metal and silicone material, some with bespoke engraving.
Viewers’ mileage will inevitably vary, but personally, I found the segments about Chang and Wallace’s work the most interesting and absorbing because the two of them are engaged with creating tangible stuff made to be either decorative, didactic and/or utilitarian.